Programs & Gear

Everything I Usenothing I don't

Two things live here. Programs I built, and the gear I bought with my own money and still reach for. If it is on this page it earned the spot.

Digital Programs

Run The System Yourself


Not everybody needs a coach. Some of you just need the plan written down properly.

Product mockup: The Refined Kitchen cover on a tablet, dark background, amber accent
FoodPDF + Mobile

The Refined Kitchen

Forty high protein recipes the family eats. Full macros, shopping lists organized by store section, and a prep order for each one. Every recipe under forty minutes.

$39

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Fitness12 Weeks

The Dad Bod Reset

A twelve week training block built for four days a week and forty five minute sessions. Video demos, progression built in, and a twenty minute fallback for weeks that fall apart.

$79

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Best ValueBundle

The Full Ripped & Refined

Both programs plus the Meal Prep Playbook and the Refined Wardrobe guide. The complete four pillar system in one download.

$129

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Products are in production. Get on the list and you get founding member pricing when they drop.

What I Actually Use

The Honest List


People ask me constantly what knife, what shoes, what protein, what jacket. So here it is, in one place, organized by pillar.

Three rules for this page. I bought it with my own money. I still use it. And if something better shows up, the old one comes off the list. I am not going to pad this with things I tried once for a video.

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Food

The Kitchen


You do not need much. You need a few things that work every time.

Lodge 12 inch cast iron skillet
Amazon

12 Inch Cast Iron Skillet

The single most used object in my kitchen. Steak, eggs, sheet pan overflow, cornbread. Costs less than one dinner out and outlives everything else you own.

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Victorinox Fibrox 8 inch chef knife
Amazon

8 Inch Chef Knife

A sharp mid priced knife will change how often you cook more than any gadget. Dull knives are why people order food. This is the one I reach for daily.

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Nordic Ware half sheet pans
Amazon

Heavy Half Sheet Pans, Set Of Two

Thin pans warp and burn one corner. Heavy aluminum ones cook evenly and last forever. Two is the right number for the Sunday prep routine.

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Glass meal prep containers with lids
Amazon

Glass Meal Prep Containers

Glass over plastic. They do not stain, they do not hold onto smells, and food out of them tastes like food instead of like a container.

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Digital kitchen food scale
Amazon

Digital Kitchen Scale

Twelve dollars and it ends the guessing. You do not have to weigh food forever, but weighing it for three weeks teaches you what a portion actually looks like.

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Ninja Professional Plus blender
Ninja

The Ninja Blender

Protein pancakes, shakes, sauces, soups. I am a SharkNinja loyalist and this is the one appliance worth spending real money on, because a cheap blender dies in a year and this one refuses to.

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Ninja air fryer
Ninja

The Ninja Air Fryer

The family workhorse. Crispy chicken for my macros, fries and nuggets when the nieces and nephews take over the kitchen. Dinner in twenty minutes with one basket to wash.

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Fitness

The Gym


Equipment does not make you strong. But bad equipment makes you quit.

Nike Free Metcon 7 white training shoes
Nike

Nike Free Metcon 7, White

I have trained in Metcons for years and these are on my feet right now, the white Free Metcon 7. Flat, stable, and built for lifting, and clean enough that they do not look like gym shoes. This is the exact pair I wear.

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Gymreapers lifting straps
Amazon

Lifting Straps

Your grip should not be the reason your back stops. Ten dollars, live in the gym bag, add real volume to pulling days.

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Adjustable dumbbell set
Amazon

Adjustable Dumbbells

For the home gym crowd and the travel weeks. One pair replaces a rack and makes the no time excuse harder to sell yourself.

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Resistance band set with handles
Amazon

Resistance Band Set

Warm ups, hotel rooms, and the hip and shoulder work that keeps you training instead of rehabbing. Weighs nothing, fits in a carry on, no excuse left.

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BlenderBottle shaker
Amazon

Shaker Bottle That Does Not Leak

Sounds trivial until one leaks in your bag on the way to work. This one has not.

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Keep It Simple

Supplements


Short list on purpose. Most of the industry is selling you expensive urine. This is the exact stack I use, plus the three basics with real evidence behind them.

Redcon1 MRE Lite whole food protein
Redcon1

MRE Lite Whole Food Protein

I am lactose intolerant, so whey is off the table. MRE Lite is whole food protein with zero whey and zero fight afterward. This is the tub on my counter right now.

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Redcon1 MRE whole food meal replacement
Redcon1

MRE Mass Gainer

The other half of my Redcon1 stack. Whole food carbs and protein for the days the target is size and the schedule does not allow a fourth meal. I run MRE Lite and this side by side.

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Bucked Up Pump-ocalypse stim free pre workout
Bucked Up

Pump-ocalypse, Stim Free Pre

I run non stim pre workouts on purpose. All pump, no jitters, and it does not wreck your sleep when you train in the evening. This is the Bucked Up formula in my gym bag.

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Nutricost creatine monohydrate
Amazon

Creatine Monohydrate

The most studied supplement that exists and one of the cheapest. Five grams a day, no loading phase, no fancy version needed.

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Vitamin D3 5000 IU softgels
Amazon

Vitamin D3

I live in Chicago. From October to April the sun is a rumor. If you live above the fortieth parallel this one is not optional.

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LMNT electrolyte packets
Amazon

Electrolytes

Training in the morning fasted, or sweating hard, or just chronically underhydrated like most men over thirty five. Cheap fix for a real problem.

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I am not a doctor and this is not medical advice. Talk to yours before adding anything, especially if you take medication.

The Grocery Run

Aldi & Jewel-Osco, Delivered


Every grocery haul starts at the same two stores, and both run on Instacart now, so the exact carts from my videos are one click away. Two kinds of carts live here. The clean one that keeps me on my macros, and the fun one, because a house full of my son and a small army of nieces and nephews runs on more than chicken and rice.

Aldi haul photo
Aldi via Instacart

The Aldi Haul

The budget half of the meal prep system. Chicken, eggs, oats, frozen vegetables, and the specialty aisle finds. This is where the family food budget stretches furthest.

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Jewel-Osco haul photo
Jewel-Osco via Instacart

The Jewel-Osco Run

The Chicago staple. Steaks for the weekend, the produce wall, and everything Aldi does not carry. The other half of every haul video.

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Family cookout photo
Instacart

The Cousin Crew Cart

Taco night, build your own pizza kits, fruit trays, popcorn and movie snacks. Healthy enough that the parents approve, fun enough that the kids actually eat it. This is the cart when the whole family pulls up.

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Fashion

The Refined Half


Building the body is only half of it. Refined is how you carry it out the door. You do not need a big wardrobe. You need a small one that fits.

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H&M

The Heavyweight Tee

Thin tees make a built frame look sloppy. A heavyweight tee with a proper shoulder seam does more for how you look than a month of lateral raises.

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H&M

Athletic Fit Denim

Slim jeans on a lifter is a losing battle. Athletic cut gives you the thigh and tapers at the ankle. This is the fit problem most guys never solve.

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Zara

The Bomber Jacket

Chicago fall in one piece of clothing. Throw it over anything and you instantly look like you thought about it.

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Nike Air Force 1 07 white sneakers
Nike

Nike Air Force 1 ’07

The summer white rotation. Goes with everything, drop off through dinner. Buy one good pair and keep them clean instead of owning six mediocre pairs.

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New Balance

The New Balance Rotation

The everyday athletic shoe that works with joggers at the gym and jeans at the cookout. Comfort that does not cost you the fit, and nobody has ever regretted a clean pair of NBs.

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Cap toe oxford dress shoes
Amazon

The Dress Shoe

Church, date night, the meeting that matters. A cap toe oxford in real leather is the one pair every man needs before he needs anything else.

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Leather penny loafers
Amazon

The Loafer

The refined answer for the days between sneakers and oxfords. Slip on, no socks in summer, and suddenly the polo and chinos look intentional.

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Minimalist leather watch
Amazon

A Watch You Actually Wear

One detail that signals you pay attention. It does not have to be expensive. It has to be yours and it has to be on your wrist.

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